His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

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Physical attractiveness. She keeps herself physically fit with diet and exercise and she wears her hair, makeup, and clothes in a way that he finds attractive and tasteful. He is attracted to her in private and proud of her in public. urn:oclc:64578407 Republisher_date 20120601055612 Republisher_operator [email protected] Scandate 20120531185918 Scanner scribe21.shenzhen.archive.org Scanningcenter shenzhen Source Over this book I would recommend Arterburn's Seven Minute Marriage Solution, Emerson Eggerichs' Love and Respect, and many more. Domestic support. She creates a home that offers him a refuge from the stresses of life. She manages the household responsibilities in a way that encourages him to spend time at home enjoying his family.

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EVEN if the statement is literally true and can be applied both ways, the wording is CLEARLY rooted in sexist and regressive ideas.Intimate conversation does not take place when one partner is distracted by the TV, radio, or something else. Intimate conversation is dedicated time set aside for the exclusive purpose of connecting about the day, problems, achievements, dreams, fears, and goals. Dr. Harley, Jr. recommends 15 hours of such conversation each and every week. While that may sound difficult, it is a sound way to develop a happy marriage. When your partner stops meeting your needs in a way that hurts you, you develop a learned response to pain when you see your partner. Many couples develop feelings of love and romance when they date. You and your partner probably did many activities together, talked, and shared intimate conversations. In a relationship, it’s important to balance their needs to maintain a healthy balance. Though it can be difficult to do at times, it’s essential for your well-being. For him, his needs often involve being able to control and dominate the relationship. This means that he wants to be in charge, and he needs to feel like he’s performing well to feel happy and satisfied.

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If you have sexual fantasies, that is a good indicator that sex is high on your list of emotional needs. Domestic support- The wife should not pursue a career, and if she does work household chores should be divided according to the needs of the husband. Harley had a good point here about making a list of everything that needed to be done in the house and having each partner put priorities on the item. Whoever ranks something with the highest priority gets to be responsible for that chore.

Current honesty: Reveal information about the events of your day. Provide your spouse with a calendar of your activities, with special emphasis on those that may affect him or her. Contents Preface Introduction 1. How Affair-Proof Is Your Marriage? 2. Why Your Love Bank Never Closes 3. The First Thing She Can’t Do Without—Affection 4. The First Thing He Can’t Do Without—Sexual Fulfillment 5. The Second Thing She Can’t Do Without—Intimate Conversation 6. The Second Thing He Can’t Do Without—Recreational Companionship 7. She Needs to Trust Him Totally—Honesty and Openness 8. He Needs a Good-Looking Wife—Physical Attractiveness 9. She Needs Enough Money to Live Comfortably—Financial Support 10. He Needs Peace and Quiet—Domestic Support 11. She Needs Him to Be a Good Father—Family Commitment 12. He Needs Her to Be Proud of Him—Admiration 13. How to Survive an Affair 14. From Incompatible to Irresistible Appendix A The Most Important Emotional Needs Appendix B Emotional Needs Questionnaire

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Equality: Both partners should have an equal say in everything that happens in the relationship, regardless of whether or not they contribute equally to the overall workload. If one person feels like they’re always carrying the burden, it will eventually wear them down emotionally and physically.An attractive spouse- there is very little in this book about acceptance and celebration of differences. The wife should change her weight, clothes, and hair to suit her husband. If he doesn't find her "irresistible" he will likely have a passionate affair from which he'll never completely recover. Historical honesty: Reveal information about your personal history, particularly events that demonstrate personal weakness or failure. Access-restricted-item true Addeddate 2012-04-11 20:20:32 Boxid IA181101 Boxid_2 CH117901 Camera Canon EOS 5D Mark II City Old Tappan, N.J. Donor Quite simply, the Love Bank refers to the deposits and withdrawals of love units for all the interactions we have with other people .