No More MR Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

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Nice Guys have difficulty making their needs a priority. These men often feel that it is selfish to put their needs first. It's the whole framing of masculinity that fails with this book. This isn't unique to Glover, it's true of our culture as a whole. Here's Glover's definition of masculinity (loc 1524):

There are many, many men I might recommend this book to, but ultimately it isn't possible to rationally discuss this ego-destroying narrative with anyone who hasn't yet privately dealt with their deep-seated, unquestioned emotional framework in this regard. Fish can't see the water they swim in, and neither do we think to question too much of our upbringing. Seriously? What the hell is left for a definition of femininity? The part of a woman that equips her to give in and give up, fracture social groups to be more easily consumed by predators, to consume and destroy, that empowers her to steal food from her babies' mouths, and use them as handy portable shark decoys in case of danger?

Once again, everybody does that. Make Your Needs a Priority and Reclaim Your Personal Power and Masculinity

The 25-year-old man who finds someone attractive but is too afraid to tell them, the 30-year-old employee who finds it hard to say no or ask for more at his workplace, or the 28-year-old man who feels like they’re being nice to everyone but have no meaningful connections. Usually, Nice Guys feel abandoned in their formative years and grow up believing that this is their fault. If you read No More Mr. Nice Guy and implement the suggested exercises, you can expect to finally begin to accept yourself exactly as you are, end the vicious cycle of feeling dependent on other people’s approval of you, develop integrity and honesty like you’ve never experienced before, and develop a more intimate and satisfying sexual relationship than you’ve ever been a part of (regardless of whether you’re currently single or already in a relationship). Reclaim your personal power. If you need a summary, always remember that it is a six-step process which includes:I frequently encourage recovering Nice Guys to be just who they are, without reservation...The people who like them just as they are will hang around. The people who don't, won't. This is the only way to have a healthy relationship."