TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis. Sometimes you’ll also see a measurement for the gap between the ring and the body, which can be useful if you have particularly large or high hanging testicles, but most of the time you won’t need to measure for this part.

Long term, absolutely not. Discomfort will turn into pain, and pain can turn into a medical emergency faster than you’d think. If you want to wear a cage for longer than a few hours, comfort and safety are the priority. Worst case scenario: you don’t get to cum for a bit, you learn something new and you can say with pride that you’re an adventurous soul. They can be used short-term until you’ve earned your way out or as part of a long term BDSM relationship in which you hand over the keys to someone else. The best way to take accurate measurements is to use a flexible tape measure. These are the kind you usually see tailors use to measure for clothing. Don’t be afraid to try multiple cages. Finding one that fits well can massively enhance your chastity experience.Yeah, probably. If you’re a complete beginner, there’s nothing wrong with buying a few cheap cages in different sizes and styles. Even for those who enjoy pain, a chastity cage shouldn’t hurt. If it does, it could cause lesions, blisters, or even permanent damage.

Michael is the author of the Total Chastity Diary and has been in and out of chastity since his mid-thirties. He’s now 41. He lives and works in Boston, has a white-collar job, and is single by choice. The measurements you’ll need are length and girth, plus the circumference from underneath your balls and over your penis. Write down these measurements while both flaccid and erect. You might think that as long as your measurements are close then it should work out. You can get away with clothes that are slightly too big or too small, so why not chastity cages? But a poorly fitted chastity device can cause several problems. If they hang down with a height of more than 2”, or extend away from your body with a length of more than 1.5”, then you should definitely choose a cage with a large gap.Similar to the penis and scrotum diameter, place the tape measure on top of your penis, but this time at the widest part of your glans (the head of the penis). Wrap it all the way around and note where it crosses over. This measurement is the circumference of your penis and scrotum. You need to divide this number by 3.14 to get the diameter. When I say “effectively”, that means a few things. It should keep it secure, obviously. But also consider how hard you want it to restrain erections. This measurement helps you find the right gap size for your chastity cage—the gap size is simply the distance between the bottom of the ring and the tube. This measurement is usually non-critical for most, but if you have larger-than-normal testicles or testicles that are tight and close to your body, you may find that cages with small gaps put uncomfortable pressure on your testicles.

We’ve rounded up the latest and most excellent toys to hold your member captive for all your chastity fans. Are you feeling particularly adventurous? Explore our favorite extreme sex toys or even some of the best ball stretchers to pair up with your chastity cage.Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable? When Shakespeare wrote, “discretion is the better part of valor”, he probably didn’t mean chastity cages. (Then again, who knows, maybe it was his thing.) Place the tape measure on top of your penis against your pubic muscle. Wrap the tape measure all the way around your penis and testicles and note where it crosses over. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size. This leaves room for your penis to grow slightly during the day.

While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length.Long story short, you don’t want to go outside and have everyone looking at your cage underneath your trousers. Sleeker plastic cages will be better for this as they are easier to wear and move around in, and often less bulky under the pants. Best case scenario: you discover a whole new layer to your relationship and a whole new side of yourself. The easiest solution is to use a little lube on the affected area if you feel rubbing and friction. This should make wearing your chastity cage a much more comfortable experience. Even if you don’t think of yourself as a submissive or a slave, I think any adventurous man should try this kind of domination play at least once.