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Multiple partners. This is Americans’ top erotic daydream. Almost everyone reported having it—87 percent of the women, 95 percent of the men. The top multi-partner fantasy involved threesomes, with moresomes not far behind. Many people fantasized of many men and women playing together (swinging, orgies), while others focused on one person having sex with many others (gangbangs). Taboo/forbidden sex. These fantasies involved voyeurism, exhibitionism, fetishes, and incest. Voyeurism, watching people have sex without their knowledge, was the most prevalent, reported by 60 percent of study participants. Almost half of Lehmiller’s sample (45 percent) reported fetish fantasies, the sexualizing of nonsexual things, notably feet and women’s underwear. And almost half (42 percent) enjoyed reveries of exhibitionism, putting on a sexual show, for example, in cars with people watching. a part of me wants to say "oh shit sorry, ill grab you a rubber band" But whether we want to blame it on the whisky, being without a girlfriend, there half decade of tension...i didnt say that.
Bondage, discipline, and sado-masochism (BDSM). No wonder the BDSM romance trilogy, Fifty Shades of Grey, has become the most popular fiction of all time. Almost everyone in Lehmiller’s survey reported BDSM daydreams—96 percent of the women, 93 percent of the men. More than three-quarters reported bondage fantasies—being tied up or restraining another. One-third reported frequent bondage fantasies. Half fantasized about discipline, i.e, erotic domination or submission (D/s), with 20 percent saying they had D/s fantasies often. More people fantasized about submission than domination. More than half of Lehmiller’s sample fantasized about receiving or administering intense sensation, the BDSM term for consensual pain, with most preferring to receive it. Fantasies of being forced into sex were also very popular—reported by almost two-thirds of the women and half the men. she very loudly unbuttons my pants as she slowly parts her lips, continuing to stair up into my eyes. My wife and I just returned home from a much needed 10 day vacation on the beach in Mexico. Having been traveling most of the day, we were tired when we arrived at our hotel and decided to head to the beach for a massage. Within in minutes we were both laying on tables overlooking the beach and listening to the waves. We were only about six feet apart with cool towels covering our faces. Every now and then I could hear my wife moan, which I assumed was from the massage. Meanwhile, my massage was okay, but nothing to moan about.good god that was amazing, you know i think swallowing is hot but you know you dont have to. you can spit it out if thats easier" When we got to our room, I caught my wife pleasuring herself in the shower, which has never happened before. In fact, she’s pretty much given upon sex. I called her out on it and she mentioned that her massage included a happy ending and she had not cum so hard in years. Of course, the closest I got was having my butt cheeks massaged. I felt ripped off and all she said was “maybe next time.” Yeah....the way you are holding my hair like that is usually my prefered first step to giving a guy a blowjob"
She says ‘what’s going on in there? Mom are you ok? Is Dad hitting you?’ My husband kept going like a champ but I was laughing so hard. Super embarrassing. This is why we usually wait until the kids go to bed. Also my husband does not hit me. I don’t know where that came from in her mind.” A few years ago I dated an artist. He treated my body and our sex like art. He. Took. His. Time. He consciously and deliberately decided which part of my body to bite or caress next. He built anticipation. He was calculated. He was artistic. And now I only want to have sex that feels like art. Anything less feels like trying to hang a connect-the-dots picture on walls of the Met.” —N.S., 39 oh and this part too, we have to keep some sort of balance" She moves one of my hands out of her hair and slides it down her tank top to fully grope her left boob. i happily followed the lead and began pinching her nipples, something that i know she is extremely fond of. she just smiled and lead me to the bedroom where i went down on her twice and then we had a cum race which i lost horribly to her. unfortunately that was the last time we had one of our little meetups. we sort of got busy with our lives like we always do. She got a long term boyfriend. me and my girl stayed together somehow or other. Few years later she was in a fatal car accident while driving the kids to her parents. we actually were suppose to hang out "like old times" the next week. the kids were fine but she didnt make it. Her family knew we were good long term friends but thats about all they ever lead on about but i went to the funeral, did the hand shaking and the hugging. When going through the line and i got to her somewhat senile mother i have her a hug and she leaned forward and saidMy daughter and husband eagerly took their front row seats in tense anticipation. My son followed me out of the pool and over to the laid out towel just in front of our, “Watchers.” It’s been over a year now and everyone has wanted to watch every time, so far. The last text I sent read, “It’s now time for the Mommy and Tommy show out by the pool, for anyone interested in watching us do it soon… Please be ready to join us in less than 5 minutes.” Sam did plasma cut and mig welded art for sale online and to local shops. She really did have an eye for interesting designs made from junk. I never minded being asked to look over her stuff, and sometimes i could give here a suggestion here or there. She pops open her laptop and starts scrolling thru some of the new stuff she has rigged up. at this point the work was all done and she offereed me a coffee, something she drank nearly by the gallon every day. She said it was because of her meds making her tired but honestly I think she just really liked the act of making coffee more than anything else. I did say that I wouldnt mind something stronger. She hadnt drank since she originally got married years ago but kept a bottle of surprisingly well chosen whiskey for guests. Pretty sure it was just for me but our relationship being what it was that wasnt much of a surprise, unspoken love has a way of setting up certain patterns of thoughtfulness. Being the good host she pops up and grabs me a glass and pours me a bit. Not being a drinking anymore, and never being someone who drank hard alcohol she always poured me way too much. Lehmiller discovered that Americans’ top erotic reveries fall into seven broad categories—three very popular, and four less so but still quite prevalent. The top three included:
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