How to Spank Your Wife

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The 103 third parties who use cookies on this service do so for their purposes of displaying and measuring personalized ads, generating audience insights, and developing and improving products. He is a husband in a relationship with a woman who has consented to being under his authority and to being disciplined. If you are into spanking then at least be honest about it, don't dress it up in a biblical bow and pretend that it isn't a kink.

He goes on to explain that the Talmud dictates the strict use of the “gentlest form of effective discipline” and points out that there is no Torah obligation to use corporal punishment on children. I am Single and looking for that Special Woman who is willing not to explore but to make this a true lifestyle and relationship. That’s why I wrote The Definitive How-To Guide For Spanking, the how-to book for domestic discipline and Spanking relationships. We can bypass the pitfalls inherent in controlling children through violence by rejecting our modern culture’s fixation on punishment and working instead toward fostering the “pleasant words” that are “like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body” (Proverbs 16:24 NRSV).It is interesting though, since you think spanking is too harsh for humanity, that you threaten people with jail, where the suicide rate is 7-10 times higher than the general population and the rate of assault is so high as to be incalculable. A result of my culture, my upbringing, my inability to use the same logic center in my own mind that some part of me expects my kids to be able to use flawlessly. pamelaparzio you say you are a believing Christian so I think you need to think about what you say here.

Along with that discussion will naturally come the need for accountability, correction, and discipline. Sometimes you have to get loud to be heard and, as long as a man doesn’t leave bruises, disciplining a woman can help improve a marriage. Moreover, you also assume that punishment is “harm” when in fact punishment is for the GOOD of those who receive it, except perhaps the torments in hell.

Even if you do it again, reinforce your belief that your actions are unacceptable and then try again the next time. She must stand completely bare from the waist down, with her hands on her head, nose touching the wall. None of us a perfect, even our husbands, yet God gently leads us and guides us to repentance through His love. Love and discipline are not in conflict with each other, as some of the passages you cite show quite plainly. org explains of Proverbs, “Much can be learned about the human mind by thinking about why two particular ideas were placed next to each other; why this verse would have been just like the last one… except for that small, almost insignificant difference and what the words actually mean.

All corner time is done in a common room to ensure that the rules are followed the whole time, no breaking position or rubbing. I may make a few more comments, I don’t want to make too many, If I think of a topic for a guest post , a short one. And it always encourages me to see how God awakens men to the truth of his Word regarding discipline in general and the need for chastisement of wives in particular. Those who attack spanking as not Christian cannot provide a biblical or logical proof that it is wrong.

It takes everything in me not to go off when I see parents in denial about the impacts of their “discipline” methods (read: punishment, since discipline means to teach), shaming and hitting most of all. Needless to say, she was spanked many times the first few years of our marriage, and often quite severely.

Without any further advice or explanation that the term was actually about the shepherd and his sheep. These kinds of punishments lack the element of fear, so they can lead to resentment, anger and defiance when that is possible. I had bought an extensive online course on Positive Parenting, and he took the time to go through all of it.During corner time, she is not allowed to speak to any family member and no one is allowed to speak to her. You may find it difficult to cause your wife pain, but as a woman she needs the release of guilt that this form of punishment brings. You lack any prohibition against the practice in Scripture, so you try and make an argument by silence, which is wholly unconvincing here. In the backs of our minds, we have to give ourselves grace enough to say, “I will do better next time” and really mean it. Even more so, you will encounter lots of discussions in real life, if you choose to talk about Spanking.